Yoni Massage & Tantra for Women in Amsterdam
Tantra sessions in the city of freedom and waterways. Trauma-informed, consent-centred, deeply healing.
Healing in Amsterdam
Amsterdam's centuries-old culture of tolerance, progressive social values, and genuine openness to alternative healing make it one of Europe's most welcoming cities for tantric practice. Its canal network and cycling culture create a city that moves at a human, embodied pace.
Whether you are new to tantra or deepening an existing practice, Jay creates a space that is entirely tailored to you — your pace, your boundaries, your intentions. Sessions take place in a private, comfortable setting during Jay's regular visits to Amsterdam, or via video call online.
"True sensuality is not performance. It is presence — the simple, profound act of feeling your own aliveness from the inside."— Jay Costa
Jay Costa
Certified Tantra Practitioner & Yoni Massage Therapist
Trained in Neo-Tantra, Kashmiri Shaivism, and somatic trauma healing. Over 1,000 sessions completed with women across 20+ countries.
In-person sessions in Amsterdam are available during Jay's regular visits. Online sessions can be arranged at any time — worldwide.
Sessions Available in Amsterdam
Each session is shaped around your needs. Choose a starting point — or ask Jay what he would recommend for where you are right now.
Yoni Massage
Sacred, therapeutic touch healing the feminine. Ideal for tension, numbness, or disconnection in Amsterdam.
2–3 hoursLearn More
Tantra Massage for Women
Full-body energy activation combining Kashmiri and Neo-Tantra techniques. Deeply restorative.
2–3 hoursLearn More
Erotic Massage for Women
A sensual, pleasure-focused session within a safe professional framework. For women reclaiming aliveness.
2–3 hoursLearn More
Tantra Retreat & Workshop
2–5 day private or small-group retreat near Amsterdam. Yoga, breathwork, and individual sessions combined.
2–5 daysLearn More
Why Women Seek Yoni Massage & Tantra Healing
For many women, the path to booking a yoni massage begins with a sense that something is missing — not in their external life, but in their relationship with their own body. Years of stress, difficult relationships, childbirth, medical procedures, or simply growing up in a culture that doesn't celebrate the feminine body create layers of armour, tension, and disconnection that conventional therapy rarely reaches.
Yoni massage works directly with the physical tissues of the pelvis and vagina, using slow, intentional touch to invite the release of held tension — what tantra practitioners call armouring. This is not a sexual service. It is therapeutic bodywork rooted in ancient tantric traditions, practiced by a certified professional within a clear, ethical framework.
The benefits women report after sessions include deeper body awareness, reduced pelvic pain, increased capacity for pleasure, emotional release (including unexpected grief or joy), improved sleep, and — most commonly — a feeling of coming home to themselves that they hadn't realised they had lost.
Tantra massage for women works with the whole body. It uses breath, presence, and specific touch sequences to activate the parasympathetic nervous system — the body's 'rest and receive' mode. For women who live in chronic stress, this alone is profoundly healing. Energy that has been locked in the sympathetic nervous system (fight or flight) is invited to flow freely again.
Erotic massage for women, within a professional tantric framework, addresses something even more specific: the reclamation of pleasure as a natural, healthy, and sacred aspect of feminine experience. In a world that has long either repressed or commercialised female pleasure, having a safe, professional, consent-centred space to simply receive and feel — without performance, without obligation — is a radical and healing act.
Tantra retreats and workshops offer a longer immersion into these practices. Over two to five days, women have the opportunity to integrate sessions with yoga, breathwork, nature time, and group sharing in a way that creates sustained transformation rather than a single peak experience. Many women describe their retreat as the most important healing they have ever done.
What Women Gain from These Sessions
Across hundreds of sessions, Jay has witnessed the same deep shifts — again and again, in women of all ages and backgrounds.
Reclaim Your Pleasure
Conditioning and past experience can disconnect women from their right to pleasure. Tantra restores this connection — safely, gradually, and on your terms.
Deeper Body Connection
Many women report feeling more present, awake, and at home in their own bodies — sometimes for the first time in their adult lives.
Awakened Sensuality
Sensual aliveness is your birthright. Erotic massage within a sacred, professional container helps you rediscover the full range of your sensory experience.
How It Works
The process is simple, confidential, and entirely on your terms.
Free Consultation
A confidential conversation — by message, call, or video — to share your intentions, history, and boundaries. No pressure, no obligation.
Your Healing Session
The bodywork unfolds at your pace. Every transition is negotiated. You are always in full control of what you receive.
Integration & Support
Jay provides aftercare guidance and follow-up support. Transformation continues long after the session ends.
What Women Say
Every testimonial is from a real client. Names and identifying details are withheld to protect privacy.
"I came with very specific wounds around my body and sexuality. The care Jay took was extraordinary. Nothing was rushed, nothing was assumed. This is real therapeutic work."
"I was nervous about booking — but from the first message Jay was warm, clear and professional. The session itself was unlike anything I could have imagined. I feel reconnected to my body for the first time in years."
"After years of conventional therapy I decided to try somatic work. This session went deeper than anything I had experienced before — reaching places words simply cannot reach."
Common Questions
Still unsure? Send Jay a message — he answers all enquiries personally.
Yes. Online sessions via video call focus on breathwork, movement, guided meditation, and somatic awareness. Many women begin their journey online before meeting in person.
Jay's approach combines rigorous professional training, a trauma-informed framework, deep spiritual grounding, and over a decade of experience working exclusively with women — resulting in sessions that are safe, deeply healing, and genuinely transformative.
Jay is trained in Neo-Tantra, Kashmiri Shaivism, and somatic trauma healing, with over 1,000 sessions completed across 20+ countries. He holds certifications from recognised tantric and holistic healing institutions.