Yoni Massage & Tantra for Women in Manchester
Yoni massage and tantra in England's northern powerhouse. Trauma-informed, consent-centred, deeply healing.
Healing in Manchester
Manchester's industrial grit, music history, and fiercely independent spirit create one of England's most authentically alive cities. Its culture of reinvention, community, and progressive thinking creates an open environment for women exploring healing beyond conventional therapy.
Whether you are new to tantra or deepening an existing practice, Jay creates a space that is entirely tailored to you — your pace, your boundaries, your intentions. Sessions take place in a private, comfortable setting during Jay's regular visits to Manchester, or via video call online.
"Tantra is not a technique. It is an orientation — toward life, toward the body, toward pleasure, as sacred."— Jay Costa
Jay Costa
Certified Tantra Practitioner & Yoni Massage Therapist
Trained in Neo-Tantra, Kashmiri Shaivism, and somatic trauma healing. Over 1,000 sessions completed with women across 20+ countries.
In-person sessions in Manchester are available during Jay's regular visits. Online sessions can be arranged at any time — worldwide.
Sessions Available in Manchester
Each session is shaped around your needs. Choose a starting point — or ask Jay what he would recommend for where you are right now.
Yoni Massage
Sacred, therapeutic touch healing the feminine. Ideal for tension, numbness, or disconnection in Manchester.
2–3 hoursLearn More
Tantra Massage for Women
Full-body energy activation combining Kashmiri and Neo-Tantra techniques. Deeply restorative.
2–3 hoursLearn More
Erotic Massage for Women
A sensual, pleasure-focused session within a safe professional framework. For women reclaiming aliveness.
2–3 hoursLearn More
Tantra Retreat & Workshop
2–5 day private or small-group retreat near Manchester. Yoga, breathwork, and individual sessions combined.
2–5 daysLearn More
Why Women Seek Yoni Massage & Tantra Healing
For many women, the path to booking a yoni massage begins with a sense that something is missing — not in their external life, but in their relationship with their own body. Years of stress, difficult relationships, childbirth, medical procedures, or simply growing up in a culture that doesn't celebrate the feminine body create layers of armour, tension, and disconnection that conventional therapy rarely reaches.
Yoni massage works directly with the physical tissues of the pelvis and vagina, using slow, intentional touch to invite the release of held tension — what tantra practitioners call armouring. This is not a sexual service. It is therapeutic bodywork rooted in ancient tantric traditions, practiced by a certified professional within a clear, ethical framework.
The benefits women report after sessions include deeper body awareness, reduced pelvic pain, increased capacity for pleasure, emotional release (including unexpected grief or joy), improved sleep, and — most commonly — a feeling of coming home to themselves that they hadn't realised they had lost.
Tantra massage for women works with the whole body. It uses breath, presence, and specific touch sequences to activate the parasympathetic nervous system — the body's 'rest and receive' mode. For women who live in chronic stress, this alone is profoundly healing. Energy that has been locked in the sympathetic nervous system (fight or flight) is invited to flow freely again.
Erotic massage for women, within a professional tantric framework, addresses something even more specific: the reclamation of pleasure as a natural, healthy, and sacred aspect of feminine experience. In a world that has long either repressed or commercialised female pleasure, having a safe, professional, consent-centred space to simply receive and feel — without performance, without obligation — is a radical and healing act.
Tantra retreats and workshops offer a longer immersion into these practices. Over two to five days, women have the opportunity to integrate sessions with yoga, breathwork, nature time, and group sharing in a way that creates sustained transformation rather than a single peak experience. Many women describe their retreat as the most important healing they have ever done.
What Women Gain from These Sessions
Across hundreds of sessions, Jay has witnessed the same deep shifts — again and again, in women of all ages and backgrounds.
Awakened Sensuality
Sensual aliveness is your birthright. Erotic massage within a sacred, professional container helps you rediscover the full range of your sensory experience.
Nervous System Regulation
The slow, attuned touch of a tantra session sends a profound 'you are safe' signal to the nervous system — often the deepest rest some women have ever felt.
Energetic Aliveness
Tantra activates the body's energy channels, leaving you feeling lit from within — grounded, vibrant, and fully present in your life.
How It Works
The process is simple, confidential, and entirely on your terms.
Free Consultation
A confidential conversation — by message, call, or video — to share your intentions, history, and boundaries. No pressure, no obligation.
Your Healing Session
The bodywork unfolds at your pace. Every transition is negotiated. You are always in full control of what you receive.
Integration & Support
Jay provides aftercare guidance and follow-up support. Transformation continues long after the session ends.
What Women Say
Every testimonial is from a real client. Names and identifying details are withheld to protect privacy.
"As a trauma survivor I was very careful about who I trusted with this work. Jay's approach was so sensitive and attuned. I never felt pressured at any point. I have recommended him to several friends."
"Jay's combination of technical expertise and genuine human warmth is rare. The consultation before the session was thorough and put me completely at ease. The session itself was extraordinary."
"I flew from abroad specifically to have a session with Jay. Worth every moment of travel. The integration I have felt in the weeks since has been profound — calmer, more open, more alive."
Common Questions
Still unsure? Send Jay a message — he answers all enquiries personally.
Yoni massage is a sacred, therapeutic practice using mindful touch to help women reconnect with their pelvic region, release stored tension or trauma, and experience the body as a source of healing. It is non-sexual, performed by a certified professional within a safe, consensual framework.
Yoni massage focuses specifically on healing and de-armouring the yoni (pelvis and vaginal region). Tantra massage for women works with the full body using touch, breath, and energy techniques to activate the nervous system and facilitate deep relaxation.
Tantra massage works with the whole body — energy, breath, and conscious touch — and is primarily a healing practice. Erotic massage for women within a tantric framework focuses on awakening sensual pleasure as part of a broader healing journey, always within clear boundaries of consent.